THE “SPEAKING VOICE” AND THE “SPOKEN WORD”
Responses:
Alright, thank you everyone for sharing.
In our class last week, we went back to 'The Beginning'. This was to help us see what was so that we can make sense of what now is or should be.
We will be starting our class today from where we stopped last week, because what we are doing in this course is not learning disconnected principles about hearing God, we are building a picture.
In our first class, we went all the way back to Genesis and we saw from our study something very simple:
"And God said"
The first picture scripture gives us of God is not that of a silent or mute God, and I’m glad from our responses that this stuck for everyone.
We established something, that "God is a speaking God." He is a communicating God and today we will be taking this picture a little further. Because it is one thing to unanimously agree that God spoke in the Old Testament or that He is a speaking God, it is another thing entirely to believe that the God who spoke in the beginning is still speaking in the same way to us now.
“So the LORD spoke to Moses face to face, as a man speaks to his friend. And he would return to the camp, but his servant Joshua the son of Nun, a young man, did not depart from the tabernacle.” [Exodus 33:11 NKJV]
God spoke to Moses face to face, as a man speaks to his friend.
How do you speak to your friends?
Note that face to face as used here is an idiomatic expression denoting open, direct and unhindered communication. Moses did not see God’s face directly (Exodus 33:20 explains this to us), but yes they did have a very open and intimate conversation, a couple of times; as a man speaks to his friend.
“But He said, “You cannot see My face; for no man shall see Me, and live.” [Exodus 33:20 NKJV]
“And Enoch walked with God; and he was not, for God took him.” [Genesis 5:24 NKJV]
It is documented for us that Enoch walked with God.
In the ancient Hebrew context, to "walk" (halak) with someone is a metaphor for a lifestyle.
You can imagine how much God enjoyed walking with Enoch, that He took him. You can imagine the kind of conversations they had. I sometimes wonder.
I know these scriptures excite us, I know we believe these words as written. But if I were to ask you this and I need you to answer honestly:
Do you believe God can speak to YOU face to face as He spoke to Moses?
I'm not asking if God can speak to man. I mean you, YOU!
Do you truly believe this?
Answer 1: Yes I do
Answer 2: Yes I believe He does.
Answer 3: I do. I struggle with this belief sometimes, but I do
Answer 4: Yes I believe so
Answer 5: Yes, I do
Thanks to everyone that answered.
If we do believe this as Christians, the question that we are now left with is this:
How do we believe yet not experience?
My position on this matter is that so many of us cannot get to the point of this type of relationship or divine communication because we are not FRIENDS OF GOD.
That scripture says:
“as a man speaks to his friend.”
We have not cultivated friendship with God, and this is where it all starts from. There is no master plan or formula to hearing God outside of this.
We cannot keep trying to decode every dream or looking for signs here and there.
Go on the internet and you will see thousand variations of:
"What does it mean if I saw myself wearing red gown in my dream?"
"What does it mean if in my dream I ate rice and turkey? I've not even had turkey in real life for a while. Helppppp" ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
All of these boils down to one thing:
"Friendship with God"
One of my closest friends lives in France and speaks French (teaches it also). Imagine that I heard a French phrase and I start crying over the internet or looking for a prophet to interpret it to me. Will you not think me foolish? Will you not wonder if I am really friends with her?
This is what we look like when we patronize supposed men of God for certain things that can be found inside of our friendship with God. Of course, there are times that you may need to speak to more matured Christians, Pastors or even your friends about what God has shown you. There are times you don't understand on the spot too. But see if your first response every time is to call somebody to be interpreting things for you, the problem is friendship with God.
I am telling you, I have seen believers who visit Muslim clerics and native doctors to interpret what they saw in a dream or vision supposedly from God.
Howwww?
Your first response cannot always be external. It should tell you something is wrong.
If your best friend calls you from another number, perhaps you haven’t even saved the number, and says just two words, chances are you might know who it is.
Why? Because there is something about familiarity. You have spent time together. You know their expressions. You know their mannerisms. You know when they are joking. You know when they are serious. You know when something is wrong even when they haven’t said, “Something is wrong.”
That is relationship.
It is the same thing with our relationship with God.
You see this course we are having? God is not trying to turn us into spiritual detectives.
He is ultimately inviting every single one of us into a relationship with Him.
If we get this part wrong, every other thing I teach here is useless.
FRIENDS OF GOD
“And he was called the friend of God.” [James 2:23b NKJV]
Friend of God!
What an extraordinary description.
If we look at the old testament, not everyone heard God speak.
This is how God describes the people He had consistent conversations with in scripture, He called them His friends.
“And the LORD said, “Shall I hide from Abraham what I am doing,” [Genesis 18:17 NKJV]
See how God treats His friends! He keeps nothing from them.
I am repeating this very loudly, if you've been struggling to hear God, check your friendship with Him.
One of the keymark of friendship is trading secrets. That we share things with each other that ordinarily other people are not aware of.
Look at how Jesus puts it:
“No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you.” [John 15:15 NKJV]
The mark of friendship is communication. I tell you things, this is proof that we are friends.
Again, if you are not being told, if you are not hearing,
The problem is with friendship!
When people come to me seeking for answers, it feels like I am being mean when I tell them to go back to their fellowship with God. I would be a bad person if I want to stand between you and God every time, interpreting things to you or hearing God so I can tell you.
Avoid any man of God who wants you to always go through them. This is not the desire of God for your life.
I want to challenge something in us today.
Sometimes we approach God like a customer approaching customer service.
“Father, I need this.”
“Father, what should I do?”
“Father, bless this.”
“Father, open that door.”
“Father, give me this.”
In fact, if I probe everyone privately, for most of us we will find our reason for being here is because we want to hear God on that particular matter.
You know what I'm talking about. You know.
GOD WANTS TO BE KNOWN
This is all over Scripture.
God wants to be known by YOU!
“And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent.” [John 17:3 NKJV]
This is what all of our journey towards eternity looks like: that we KNOW God.
John doesn't define it by merely going to Heaven.
To know God.
That is the invitation.
And if God wants to be known, then it shouldn’t surprise us that He communicates.
In fact, it shouldn't be so difficult to hear a God who "desperately" wants to be known by man so much that He sent His son who is also God to become man and die to bridge the gap.
I cannot in one breath say that I want you to know me and still say that you can only speak to me through third parties (Pastors and prophets), it simply means I was lying about you knowing me. I do not want to be known.
God may speak through pastors, God may speak through prophets, God may speak through people. But none of those people are supposed to become the replacement for knowing God Himself. The messenger cannot become the relationship.
If God desires to be known by you, then God Himself must be accessible to you.
There is Yoruba Proverb that says when the "alárinà " (middleman) is done introducing the bride to the groom, he exits.
The job of a Shepherd is to guide you into knowing God.
We cannot become the primary means for your relationship with God.
A lot of us believers are heavily reliant on the friendships our Pastors have built with God.
You too have been called Friend.
You too!
Knowing someone requires access to the person, and God has done the utmost already; He literally died to give you that access. To have God inaccessible to us is to damn the sacrifice on the cross ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Think about human relationships. If I tell you, “I really want you to know me,” but every time you want to know something about me, I send you to somebody else:
“Go and ask my friend.”
“Go and ask my brother.”
“Go and ask my pastor.”
“Go and ask my prophet.”
At some point, you will ask me, “But do you actually want me to know you?”
A lot of us know how to ask people “What is God saying?”
But we don’t know how to sit before God and say,
“Father, what are You saying to me?”
We are comfortable receiving a word from someone else, but uncomfortable with the possibility that God Himself could speak to us. How? Why?
Again, this doesn't mean that God doesn't use people or Pastors. No, that's not my point.
I am telling you that the Lord Almighty wants to be YOUR Friend.
"No longer do I call you servants, but I call you FRIENDS"
My God!
So perhaps the question we need to ask ourselves tonight is not only, “Does God speak?"
We have already answered that.
The question is:
“Do I know the God who speaks?”
Because there is a difference between knowing that God speaks and knowing the One who is speaking. There is a difference between knowing what God has said and knowing God. And there is a difference between having someone tell you what God is saying and having a relationship with God yourself.
God has never wanted to merely be a voice in the distance, He wants to be known.
He called Moses His friend.
He called Abraham His friend.
Jesus said to His disciples, “I have called you friends.”
And if friendship with God is possible, then divine communication cannot simply be about getting information from God. Nooooooooo!
It is about knowing the Person who is speaking.
So as we continue this journey, I want you to carry this with you:
God is not trying to keep Himself hidden from you.
He is not playing a game where you have to find the right prophet or pastor before you can find Him.
He is not saying, “You can know about Me, but you cannot know Me.”
He has revealed Himself.
He has made Himself known.
And He has invited us into a relationship with Him.
So our posture in this course cannot simply be, “God, tell me ABC or xyz.”
It has to become:
God, I want to know You.
In fact, I need you to completely discard whatever reason made you join this course and change to the above.
I need you to.
I will be stopping here for now.
I was supposed to teach on something else entirely but I did sense a pull to stay right here on this topic. This was supposed to be a subtopic in an upcoming class.
I hope we've all been blessed and took something from today's teaching
Questions & Answers
Question 1: So God wants to talk to us like He did with Moses? Sometimes I really find it hard to believe. I mean I get the nudge and all. Or I have just been operating from a slave standpoint? This topic has kind of shaken a lot and for someone who has had issues relationally, being consistent with relationships feels hard. The word friend feels really big to me. Like God wants me to be a friend.
Answer:
Yes, God wants to talk to us as He did with Moses.
It feels so hard to believe but it is true.
A song came to mind as I read through your question:
'Who you say I am' by Hillsong.
It says: "Who am I that the highest King would welcome me?"
And of a truth, I feel this way sometimes.
Even the psalmist in Psalms 8:4 was asking the same question: "What is man that you are mindful of him?"
We must come to the place of understanding just how much we mean to God.
Yes, the word friend is indeed BIG but it is what God has called us!
Son! Friend! Bride!
And I need us to come to the place where we indeed believe. Where our response is as what Hillsong wrote:
I am who you say I am!
If He says friend? Then friend I am
Question 2:
I) How can I be friend with God and be consistent?
II) Is it possible to experience pain in the ear when He speaks or when He has spoken to someone?
Answer:
I think consistency begins with removing the pressure to perform.
Friendship grows through spending time together. You don’t become friends with someone by having one intense conversation once a month. You become familiar with them through regular interaction.
So start as simple as you can. Talk to God every day. It could be for just 5 minutes but make sure to show up everyday. If you want to help yourself do this, choose a place and a time, then stick to it. Don't miss it for anything.
Read His Word. Tell Him what is happening in your life. Ask Him questions. Listen. Be honest with Him. And when you miss a day, don’t turn that into a reason to stay away for another week. Come back, immediately.
You like someone in real life and you want to become friends with them? You spend time with them.
Spend time with God.
And be intentional about it, it won't happen by chance.
The best of marriages I've seen are those who build routines to keel them in love.
I know an executive (a former minister) who has a movie time with her family every week. It doesn't matter what the meeting we have is about, she'd leave at that time to meet with them. Nothing is more important.
I know another who plays a particular instrument with his grandchild every Wednesday, your meeting will wait.
Nothing must be more important to you.
For question 2, I wouldn’t use ear pain as a biblical test for whether God has spoken.
God can certainly communicate with us in ways that we perceive very deeply, and Scripture uses language around hearing, seeing, sensing and perceiving God. But a physical sensation, including pain in the ear, does not automatically mean God is speaking.
The same way me shaking and shouting doesn't necessarily mean God is speaking but I can indeed react this way sometimes when God speaks to me.
So yes, it can happen but it is not an absolute sign for every believer.
When we are learning to hear God, we need to be careful not to turn every sensation into a spiritual sign. We don’t establish that God has spoken simply because we felt something. Because on the day we don't feel it, we can easily say God did not really speak.
And this is actually part of what we will be learning as we continue: hearing, discerning and responding.
We want to become sensitive to God, but we also want to become discerning.
Question 3: My question would be that in as much as we should not just seek God for the bread that He gives, there are seasons in one's life that it may seem like we desperately need His guidance, His leading, His word. How would one navigate such season, especially if the person struggles to discern God's voice?
Answer:
That’s a very important question.
There will be seasons when you genuinely need God’s direction, and I don’t think we should feel guilty about that. Why are we children of God if we cannot ask Him?
The issue is not that you need an answer. The question is whether, in needing the answer, you are still seeking God Himself, or we are here only for the answer.
Many believers want God ONLY for the answers. We run away after we get it then come back when we need the next answer. This is not how to build a relationship.
So yes, if you are in need of answers, ASK GOD.
James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God…”
Sometimes God’s guidance will come through Scripture, sometimes through wisdom, counsel, circumstances, an inward conviction, or specific communication from the Spirit.
And if you are struggling to discern His voice, don’t panic. Go back to what you already know He has said in Scripture, pray for wisdom, and give yourself room to discern rather than forcing an answer because you desperately need one or even getting tired.
ASSIGNMENT
1. Sit with this prayer for the next couple of weeks:
"God, I want to know you"
Pray it truthfully and with all sincerity. Beyond what He can do for you.
2. Add this song to your Playlist: "To Know you by Minister Dunsin Oyekan."
3. Start a 'God and I journal'
Get a new book to journal your new relationship with God. Remember, it is not a prayer request journal. It is a relationship/love journal. Document your thoughts about God each day inside of it (This means you have to actually think about God BTW). Document the things you notice, the things on your mind, the things you want to tell Him. The things that made you laugh.
Just allow yourself with God.
Everyone is to get the journal between tomorrow and Friday. I will be joining us too. In fact, I am titling mine: 'Olúrẹ̀mà and Her God.'
