Tuesday, 26 April 2022

DISCIPLESHIP SERIES 3: THE TRUE DISCIPLE

What makes one a disciple?

What are the pieces of evidence to show that a person is a disciple?



Do we just take people's word for it? If person A says they are disciples, then disciples they are, or are there things we will see in common with these sets of people that qualify them as disciples?

We will be exploring these questions tonight as we provide answers to them.

One thing I have found so far from scripture is that Jesus was an interesting man. I sometimes try to imagine Christ in our world today and what the media paparazzi will be like. This man had random people leaving their businesses, their lives essentially, to follow Him up and down.

Though the Return on Investment for that is priceless, but look deep and you find these guys didn't even really understand the ROI from the beginning.

Jesus was captivating. I think this is the word. A lot of people were always around Jesus. He had the crowd around Him every time.

If I see you with a person more than 10 times, I will automatically assume that you are their follower. But this logic is flawed when it comes to discipleship. You know why?

Even the Pharisees were always present with Jesus. They were always a part of the gathering. But were they disciples? No! Were they following Him in this sense? The answer is No.

For some people, they were captivated by the man Jesus and the way He spoke, though they never understood anything He said. For some, it was the miracles. For some, just curiosity. Nothing more than that. For some others, it could even have been joblessness. Lack of better things to do with their time. And there are people that would have joined the crowd because there was a crowd, “Everybody dey go, so make I join.” There were also people like the Pharisees who were following Him up and down largely because they hated His guts but somehow couldn't ignore Him completely. They had to be there to poke holes in all of His stories. Everyone was present with Jesus, but not everyone was following or were disciples.

While preaching in church on Sunday, the Holy Spirit pointed something out to me about the resurrection of Jesus. The angels had to remind the women who met the tomb empty that Jesus already told them He would rise. But if you go to Matthew 27 from verse 62, you will see that the chief priests and the Pharisees did not forget Jesus saying this.

They remembered clearly. So much so that they met Pilate to guard the tomb heavily. They knew the very words of Jesus but this did not make them disciples. Their reason for knowing was of course wrong.



30 “As he spake these words, many believed on him. 31 Then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him, If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed; 32 And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” John 8: 30-32 (KJV)

I noticed something here. Jesus was speaking to them about the Father and Himself. And the bible says many believed Him.

Faith!

But then you move to the next verse and you find a shocking revelation;

Their faith/belief in what He had said doesn't translate into them being disciples. Their proof of discipleship was if they abide in His word. It wasn't in believing or accepting His word.

That's a start, a good one, but not the evidence we are looking for.

“If you continually obey my teachings and live in accordance with them”

The first evidence that anyone is a true disciple of Jesus is them abiding in the word. Do you continually obey God's teachings and live in accordance with them? Or you keep telling yourself that Grace covers all?

Your answer to this question helps you to know if you are a true disciple or not. There is also a reason this abiding and obeying is continual.

“From that time many of His disciples went back and walked with Him no more.” John 6:66 NKJV



See what happened before they left Jesus and dropped the discipleship cap? 

“As the living Father sent Me, and I live because of the Father, so he who feeds on Me will live because of Me.” John 6:57 NKJV

The requirement was they will live by the word. People want to be free, people want to do what they like, they want to lead themselves. But you see disciples? We are led by the word. No buts.

Discipleship is not a once in a while decision of following in the footsteps of Christ, we must continually abide here. We must make that effort. Just as we discussed last week on cross-bearing. Every one of us must give something to follow. You like it or not, you will drop something.

I mentioned as we started that the disciples gave up their very lives to follow Jesus. Discipleship is seen in the sacrifice we make to continuously abide in Christ and in His word. The proof of Faith is continuing in Faith. To continue in Faith is to continue in the word (to continually live by its principles).

So,

1. A true disciple is one who abides in the word

2. A true disciple is one who imitates Jesus and does His will

“You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it.” John 8:44 NKJV

We are marked by what we do and what we desire.

What do you desire?

These are questions I'd like us to pause and ask ourselves.

It is important that we end this series with a huge change and improvement to our lives as believers.

What do you desire?



Jesus told them they were not of the Father because they didn't love Him.

“Jesus said to them, “If God were your Father, you would love Me, for I proceeded forth and came from God; nor have I come of Myself, but He sent Me.” John 8:42 NKJV

“If you love Me, keep My commandments.”  John 14:15 NKJV

This brings me to the next piece of evidence of discipleship.

“This is My commandment: that you love one another [just] as I have loved you.” John 15:12 AMPC

Our third evidence of discipleship is:

3. Loving, Just as Christ loves

This is the benchmark. We are not true disciples yet if we do not know how to love like Christ. Not based on what people do to us but loving exactly as Christ loves.

Nothing like love your neighbor as yourselves. No! Love your neighbor as Christ loves you!

Our lifestyle of love stands as a witness to our discipleship call. No one will say He is a follower of Jesus and refuses to love as Christ does.

How exactly then has Christ loved us? Find a previous teaching that answers this question HERE

The proofs that you are a true disciple are:

1. You abide in the word

2. You imitate Jesus and do His will

3. You love others just as Christ loves you

Based on these, sit and ask yourself today, Am I a true disciple of Jesus...?

To be continued…

Tuesday, 5 April 2022

DISCIPLESHIP SERIES 2: DISCIPLESHIP: A WAY OF LIFE

Then he said to them all: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will save it. What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit their very self.”  Luke 9:23-‬25 NIV

While I was reading this, I drew a correlation. Just after Peter confesses that Jesus is the Messiah (Luke 9: 18 - 21), Jesus goes ahead to tell them what it means to follow.


Looking at the body of Christ, I have noticed that we put discipleship as something people come into in their adult years in Christianity, or for leaders. This is why we see that there is a certain expectation of those who lead us, expectations that are exactly Christ-like but are not required of all who are Christians.

I've spoken with a Christian, telling them they are guilty of what they accused the leader/’Spiricoco’ Christian of, and the response was: "I'm not a deep Christian, they are". I didn't understand.

The bar is the same for everyone!


When does discipleship begin?

After you confess and accept Christ; because what we really accept is to begin living the life of Christ.

To live, you must follow. Discipleship, a way of life!

I will tweak this a bit: Discipleship is the way to live!

The Christian faith is to follow Jesus till we reflect Him. Discipleship isn't also for beginners in Christ. So after accepting Christ, I move to the discipleship course and graduate No no no! Discipleship is for everyone that claims to believe, for the rest of their years.


While we are taking this as a course, we must know that discipleship is also not a course that we just tick off our Christian journey. "Oh! I've done this, I'm now a disciple" It is more of, "I'm now a disciple, so I will be doing this." Discipleship is not one of the things that distinguishes us as Christians, no! It is who we are as Christians!


Discipleship goes beyond a lifestyle. Lifestyle is a style of living that reflects attitude or values of a person, but you see discipleship, it is our life in Christ. When we say In Christ, With Christ, you see that ‘In Christ’ part, the physical translation is following Christ.

Discipleship will birth growth in believers o, but it goes beyond our growth manual. It is our "In Christ" mandate. It is the very heart of God's work.


Look at Jesus' 3 years of ministry, this was His focus. He didn't give a great commission that He Himself did not live. 

“Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and turning to them he said: “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple. And whoever does not carry their cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.” Luke 14:25-‬27 NIV

Large crowds were "following". They were following but they were not followers. Jesus saw all of these plenty people and He had to note it to them:

“You might be following me o, but if you really want to be my follower, there is a condition: You must carry your cross.”


I will like to ask us: What does it mean to carry your cross?

For breakdown context,

“Whoever will not carry the cross that is given to them when they follow me cannot be my follower.” Luke 14:27 ERV


ANSWERS:

“It means a daily commitment to Jesus. So, if it comes to choosing between my career and Jesus, it is Jesus. If it comes to choosing between flesh and Jesus, it is Jesus. If it comes to choosing between anything at all and Jesus, it is Jesus. The Cross is a symbol of total doing away of the flesh, and embracing life –Jesus.” (Samson)


“Cross here is yourself. I wake up daily to a fight between my mind and Jesus' word (one aspect). The cross I'm carrying is my "flesh". From the story in Luke of the leper who was healed in front of the whole synagogue, after Jesus healed him, he said take up your mat and go. When I read this now, this mat represented his past which became his testimony. Another thing the cross can be linked to (in my opinion) is my past/my testimony.”(Chelsea)


“It means to come with our totality.” (Tunmise)



Cross Bearing

“And whoever does not bear his cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple.” Luke 14:27 NKJV

“And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me.” Matthew 10:38 NKJV


I saw this verse in Matthew and I ‘shooked’

"is not worthy of Me"

This is such a strong word.

I checked the concordance and I was even more shook

‘My shooked raised up’

G514Greek: ἄξιος

Transliteration: áxios

Pronunciation: ax'-ee-os 

 Description: probably from ἄγω(G71); deserving, comparable or suitable (as if drawing praise):

Translation: due reward, meet, (un-)worthy.

KJV usage: worthy (35x), meet (4x), due reward (1x), unworthy (with G3756) (1x).


The man who doesn't follow is not due of the reward in Christ.

What is the reward in Christ? Eternal life

I spent a lot of time trying to understand this part but you see one thing I've learnt about the bible is, you will not say Jesus meant A when He said B

He said what He said!


The man in Christ MUST be a disciple. He must follow Jesus. The man who follows Jesus MUST carry His cross.


We do not pick to be disciples. You know the way we say if you don't labor for God/work in His vineyard, it doesn't mean you will not go to Heaven.

You do not pick to follow Jesus. This is a truth most Christians hate to accept but I didn't say it Jesus did.

Discipleship is total surrender. That's why people say "I give my life to Christ."

I am giving up everything I am to accept the life of Christ. This is why I tell people that correct Christians that say they've given their life to Christ that it is wrong, context matters


Discipleship is total surrender.You must give up everything.


“So likewise, whoever of you does not forsake all that he has cannot be My disciple.” Luke 14:33 NKJV


Everything changes from this perspective; even our earthly possessions, the way we view them change. 

Discipleship is not a burden either, I don't want us to see it as this.


There is nothing Jesus has asked of us that He Himself has not done

To surrender? He already did!

He carried His cross also.

"Hate your father and mother", He loved God more than His earthly family. It was seen in His decision making.

Hate his own life? He gave it on the cross

Give up all His "material possession"? He was God but became man like us, owning nothing physically


Everything Jesus has asked us to do, He did!

He is our perfect example that we can!

What has Jesus asked you to do that you thought difficult? Did you do it and what did you learn doing it?


Submission.

That's one of the most difficult thing, Jesus ask me to do... It took me years to obey... I did eventually... And now find it more easier to obey His instructions, since I obeyed that one. (Ruthie)

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sighs, Jesus asked me to step up to a point of sanctification and gave some conditions I considered strict on my commitment to him and dedication. I struggled for a while and then I complied, with the help of the Holy Spirit. As I obeyed, everything became easier for me. Every aspect of my life became easier (Ayodele)

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Loving food less, for me. I like eating a little bit too much, hence, fasting used to be very difficult. 🌚I'm not there yet. But there's tremendous progress.

What I've learned?

1. You can't do it by your power. The flesh loves pleasure, and if you aren't careful, you'll keep falling and falling. Same for any addiction

2. With Christ's help, you can do anything. Be free from anything. (Samson)

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I have found that my life doesn’t follow the regular way that life/things go. For example, if everyone is going to the topmost floor, I already know that God is most likely not going to take me there and I am most likely going to go to another floor.

(Obedience? Consecration?) I’m not sure what to call it but I could say obedience generally with living life God’s way and not the way that seems right or normal for people generally.

Did I do it? Yes, I did it. When the realization dawned on me, I started praying about it and asking for grace and help.

What I have learned and I’m still learning is that God’s way is not my way and his thoughts are not my thoughts and no what happens I know that his plans for me are always of good. I can always be assured that if God says I should stay on the ground floor that it is the best for me and I will stay there conveniently and with gladness in my heart. 

I have also learned to ask God for help when struggling, I can’t do things in my own.

I have also learned that there is peace when you submit totally to God. Genuine peace that the world can truly never give me. (Debola)

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Forgiveness 

This was really hard at some point because people sometimes do the  worse things to me and i tell myself I am never going to talk to them again 

But after He told me to have a forgiven heart, and to forgive people in advance for their deeds. Sometimes my heart is very heavy anytime I feel like not talking to someone and then I just hear Him say: text them, call them ....... and I just find my heart very relaxed 🥰🥰🥰🥰 (Joy)

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Mine is love

To just sit and love regardless of how I feel

To share love even when my neck is paining in tears 🥲

I've been trying to

Sometimes it's hard until

But he always teaches me how to.

He also thought me through this that the way I see things and others affects my relationships cuz i feel that's how I'm bring looked at

But once I love like him, I'll be unbothered about it (Chelsea)

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I also want to add that we've been called to a life of total surrender. I surrendered yesterday doesn't mean I won't surrender today.

Discipleship is us surrounding till we exit this world

It is amazing how even after this world, the crown that we will receive as gifts, we will still go and surrender it willingly at the feet of Christ

Wow

You cannot enjoy this life in Christ if you do not surrender completely

Also, dead this idea that submission is God trying to find out which one of us can take suffering the most

So He can crown us best in suffering 😂. Submission is not suffering

It is because we have attached life to these things that we assume it is suffering to live without them

There is this hymn that has been playing in my head for over a week (Blessed Assurance) 

I will share the first line of the second stanza to close today's teaching

The opening line is: Perfect submission, perfect delight

You are looking for joy in this walk? To delight in all the happenings embedded in it

It is in Perfect submission

It is in surrendering